To live and let live is the principle of the gospel,and the principle of every-day common sense.Oh,young man,hear me;live as you go along.Do not wait until you have reached my years before you begin to enjoy anything of this life.If I had the millions back,or fifty cents of it,which I have tried to earn in these years,it would not do me anything like the good that it does me now in this almost sacred presence tonight.Oh,yes,I am paid over and over a hundredfold tonight for dividing as I have tried to do in some measure as I went along through the years.I ought not speak that way,it sounds egotistic,but I am old enough now to be excused for that.I should have helped my fellow-men,which I have tried to do,and every one should try to do,and get the happiness of it.The man who goes home with the sense that he has stolen a dollar that day,that he has robbed a man of what was his honest due,is not going to sweet rest.He arises tired in the morning,and goes with an unclean conscience to his work the next day.He is nota successful man at all,although he may have laid up millions.But the man who has gone through life dividing always with his fellow-men,****** and demanding his own rights and his own profits,and giving to every other man his rights and profits,lives every day,and not only that,but it is the royal road to great wealth.The history of the thousands of millionaires shows that to be the case.The man over there who said he could not make anything in a store in Philadelphia has been carrying on his store on the wrong principle.Suppose I go into your store to-morrow morning and ask,"Do you know neighbor A,who lives one square away,at house No.1240？""Oh yes,I have met him.He deals here at the corner store.""Where did he come from?""I don't know.""How many does he have in his family?""I don't know.""What ticket does he vote?""I don't know.""What church does he go to?""I don't know,and don't care.What are you asking all these questions for?"
If you had a store in Philadelphia would you answer me like that?If so,then you are conducting your business just as I carried on my father's business in Worthington,Massachusetts.You don't know where your neighbor came from when he moved to Philadelphia,and you don't care.If you had cared you would be a rich man now.If you had cared enough about him to take an interest in his affairs,to find out what he needed,youwould have been rich.But you go through the world saying,"No opportunity to get rich,"and there is the fault right at your own door.
But another young man gets up over there and says,"I cannot take up the mercantile business."（While I am talking of trade it applies to every occupation.）"Why can't you go into the mercantile business?""Because I haven't any capital."Oh,the weak and dudish creature that can't see over its collar!It makes a person weak to see these little dudes standing around the corners and saying,"Oh,if I had plenty of capital,how rich I would get.""Young man,do you think you are going to get rich on capital?""Certainly."Well,I say,"Certainly not."If your mother has plenty of money,and she will set you up in business,you will"set her up in business,"supplying you with capital.
The moment a young man or woman gets more money than he or she has grown to by practical experience,that moment he has gotten a curse.It is no help to a young man or woman to inherit money.It is no help to your children to leave them money,but if you leave them education,if you leave them Christian and noble character,if you leave them a wide circle of friends,if you leave them an honorable name,it is far better than that they should have money.It would be worse for them,worse for the nation,that they should have any money at all.Oh,young man,if you have inheritedmoney,don't regard it as a help.It will curse you through your years,and deprive you of the very best things of human life.There is no class of people to be pitied so much as the inexperienced sons and daughters of the rich of our generation.I pity the rich man's son.He can never know the best things in life.
One of the best things in our life is when a young man has earned his own living,and when he becomes engaged to some lovely young woman,and makes up his mind to have a home of his own.Then with that same love comes also that divine inspiration toward better things,and he begins to save his money.He begins to leave off his bad habits and put money in the bank.When he has a few hundred dollars he goes out in the suburbs to look for a home.He goes to the savings-bank,perhaps,for half of the value,and then goes for his wife,and when he takes his bride over the threshold of that door for the first time he says in words of eloquence my voice can never touch："I have earned this home myself.It is all mine,and I divide with thee."That is the grandest moment a human heart may ever know.
But a rich man's son can never know that.He takes his bride into a finer mansion,it may be,but he is obliged to go all the way through it and say to his wife,"My mother gave me that,my mother gave me that,and my mother gave me this,"until his wife wishes she hadmarried his mother.I pity the rich man's son.
